Well, here's an update. I'm in Tucson, AZ on business, and wifey insists on dealing with all of the change of address issues for the household. I've tried to tell her that most can be accomplished over the month as we get bills, and we simply inform everyone of the change of address.
She contacts our phone (and internet) company, and demands that the street address be changed so that the 911 folks will have our proper address. She had to go to the office and present, in person, the letter from the County Emergency Services that states our address is changing. Upon returning home, she decides to test whether the address has been changed by calling 911! 20 police show up at the house, lights flashing, etc. Apparently, they had problems finding the house, because she changed the friggin' number on the mailbox already, but the 911 change-over takes 48-72 hours. So now she's really pissed that 911 is still using the old number, the neighbors are wondering what happened at our house, etc. Meanwhile, she doesn't change our second phone number info (my number out in the garage).
We have several packages in route to our home via UPS and FedEx, and by her changing the numbers on the mailbox, the delivery guys are confused. I went to FedEx on Saturday to mail a package, and explained the situation. They get their addresses from published street maps, which get updated maybe once a year. Fortunately, the delivery people have a regular route, so they asked me for a written note of the address change to provide to him. Wifey says packages are being delivered, but only after the truck goes by 6-7 times.
I tried to convince her to put up the new numbers on the mailbox with the old numbers for a month or so, so that every one will know what the changes are. No, she refused to do so, and immediately removed the old number so the new numbers would fit nicely on the mailbox.
Arrrrggg! ~??? ~??? ~???