Terry I've read the whole thread from the beginning, and started doing so when there were only a few responses. I'd hesitated on commenting for a number of reasons, mainly because I try to keep my work and my hobby separate. If I can help out a fellow Stangfixer, I'm more than happy to, but I try to limit comments on the legal side. With that said, let me throw in real quick that I truly appreciate the overall LE friendly nature of the the members of this forum. Posts such as this on "other" forums quickly turn into an all out cop bashing session! Again, thanks to everyone!
First I'm kind of confused on several points. Your son is 16, legally he's a juvenile. In some states, such as mine, 17yo is treated as an adult in all criminal charges (of which traffic offenses are classified as criminal). A 16yo can be cited as an adult for traffic offenses, but only to the extant that no jail time could be handed down in sentencing. Anything like that would have to go through the juvenile justice side of the courts. If your state is different, I'd strongly recommend an attorney (which it sounds like you're doing already). What you're told outside of an attorney by the prosecutors office (DA, whatever; different states, different titles), has no legal sticking power unless in writing. I was stopped for speeding when I was 16yo and the officer had me FOLLOW him to the station in my car (I was stopped a block from my parents home). My dad was called and had to come and get me and the car. When it went to court he was told outside it would be okay, no lawyer needed, yadayadayada. Just before the trial they came and advised what the penalties would be upon conviction. They were actually WORSE than a DUI! My dad told them nope, we wanted an attorney present. After a delay they came back. When said and done, I ended up writing a 1k word essay on my responsibilities as an SC driver. Anyhow, I digress. Let the attorney work it out. Obviously your attempts were fruitless. Also, in my courts I prosecute my own misdemeanor cases (of which reckless driving is one). The only time the city attorney is present is if I request assistance (usually due to a defense attorney representing at a bench trial), or if the defendant requests a jury trial. I have, however, also had to prosecute several jury trials (though none too happy about it!). Your court system may be different. That changes not only from state to state, but we have cities here in SC that the city/county attorneys prosecute every case. You may want to confirm exactly who would be prosecuting and what type of court.
Just to clarify a few things about several comments. First, honesty IS the best policy! While I stated above that a 16yo is a juvenile, they can be taken into custody. Here they can go to a juvenile facility until a kind of "kiddy" bond hearing is held (usually several days later). Yeah, it sounds like being arrested, but you can't "arrest" a juvenile, it's called "custody". It's legal speak, same thing, different title...sheesh! Based on our system here I can tell you, given the same set of circumstances here, had he lied he could (probably would), be taken into custody. No phone call to mom and dad until AFTER he was in custody. Generally speaking law enforcement knows the answer to the questions they're asking a "suspect" about 90% of the time. They just want to see what THEY'LL say! Honesty in the answers usually opens a lot of doors for discretion to be applied. Also, the officer can, obviously, charge for the infraction regardless of not being there since there was a witness and it was "freshly committed". It would be imperative for that witness to be in court in order to convict though. To say the officer couldn't charge because he wasn't there is kinda silly (no insult intended folks, I tried to put it as nicely as I could). Police are RARELY present when an infraction occurs. The major one I can think of where they would be present would be speeding. Think about it. How would a citation be issued for a traffic accident? In over 10 years on the street, I've personally only witnessed 3 that I investigated!!! I then had to include myself on the report as a witness! So yes, he could issue the citation.
The last issue is your son's admission to the officer. First, while the officer can, and probably would, testify to receiving your son's answer, it can be recanted. WHY an attorney would advise as he did regarding the statement being made or not made is beyond me! If your son' admission was recorded on video (don't forget about the in-car camera on the cruiser!), or gave a written statement, that would be a little different! Many times people openly admit to me their infraction. Some don't REALIZE they are, but if necessary I include it in my testimony. I almost think it humorous the ones that tell me, "but sir I wasn't speeding. I was only doing 40 in a 35 zone"! Ummm, yeah, okay. That's still speeding Clarence Darrow! LOL Unless someone is placed under arrest a Miranda warning is NOT required. Anything said during a pre-arrest interview is legally admissible. Even AFTER an arrest Miranda is not required if no questions regarding the crime are not asked. If someone is arrested and no Miranda is given don't think you'll get out of it by blurting out "I admit it, I DID rape that owl!" LOL It's admissible under what's known as an "excited utterance". Lastly, unless the jurisdictional agency requires it of their officers, parents are NOT legally required to be present when a juvenile is questioned. It may differ by law from state to state though. They are also entitled to their Miranda rights and have all the legal rights of protection afforded an adult. That DOESN'T differ from state to state. There is no age clause in the Constitution! When present, parents also have no power to advise that their children will not answer a question, or make a statement for them. They do not qualify as legal counsel.
Okay enough of all that. One recommendation on something I didn't see you post. Have you asked to meet with the officer and talk it over with him? I know he called you out there, but that was "heat of the moment" . You may want to sit down and talk it over with him. Be aware, he will have legal limitations on what he can/can't discuss due to the pending charge. You may be able to reach some agreement with him directly though. Caring parents usually carry just as much weight with officers as honesty does!
Bottom line, we try to teach our kids to do the right thing. Doing the doughnuts sounds like a kid stupidity, show off, peer pressure type thing. Do I condone it? Nope, as I know you don't. We can't control them 24/7 however. Standing up and honestly admitting to it, a truly adult and responsible act. If I had to pick only one thing of the two I'd want my children to do, it would be taking responsibility. Kudos to you on that lesson taught! Not trying to armchair quarterback the officer's decision to write a reckless charge (I wasn't there, don't know the totality of the circumstances), but I would more than likely NOT have chosen do that. The phone call and getting you up there? Absolutely, good choice. I may have been hard pressed to even issue a citation. Again, dunno, wasn't there. There are times to indeed be a hard a$$, and other times to show a little leniency and use discretion.
Good luck with it and if nothing else, hopefully he's learned a positive lesson from a negative situation. Good luck with it!
Sorry, had to edit and add this Terry. Whomever you spoke with about the possible sentencing was an idiot, plain and simple. I make this statement based on what you posted that you were told. Whenever a sentence is issued for a conviction the terms of that sentence are given by the judge. He can then suspend all or part of them. If the sentence were "suspended", but you still end up with a driving school, fine and community service, good GOD, WHAT exactly got suspended of the sentence?!!! There's not much left!!! Suspension means he issues the sentence, but then declines to impose them. It IS still listed as a conviction though.
p.s. Regarding traffic citations in parking lots; here in SC DUI and reckless charges can be made anywhere, public or private property. Different states have different laws regarding that. My comments above have been based mostly on my state's laws. I tried to ensure any nationwide type issue was annotated as such. As the saying goes, your mileage may vary!