Finally filed for divorce...on my 13th anniversary no less...

[DEL65]

I hope you have the best possible outcome for you and your kids.

[blu67]

I like the idea of a PI but I'm sure the cost is out of my range. Plus she gets her stuff at the grocery store and 7-11.
Anyway, not trying to find excuses for her or cry about it myself to you guys.  Just trying to figure out how to navigate my side of things.
I've tried to limit the amount of money she has access to to virtually nothing (sometimes really nothing) but she still finds a way to get it. She told me one day that she just went into the grocery store and stole some  wine. I'm sure she has done that in other occasions as well. Just wish she would get caught. Don't think a cop is going to come by to arrest her without proof here in LA if I called.
6 months can't come soon enough. ( in CA, divorces usually take 6 months to finalize. )