With all the help on here, I finally got the headlight relays in this morning:
I had a bunch of parts sitting in the empty front living room (I can do that, its just me and the kiddo), JBA H pipe, SS fuel line and aluminum driveshaft from Streetortrack.com and a bunch of clothes to take to goodwill

Here is where I plan to mount the relays I already opened up the harness, the big red wire is my 12v source

I used one of the existing holes from the voltage regulator so I only had to drill one hole.

Of course they probably would have looked better had I cleaned some of the dust first..

Oh yeah, they work too...! :toot